cp: fixing cp -a functionality to match gnu implementation for -z flag handling and for folders

[ChrisDryden]

This has been in the works for a few days where I have been adding the functionality that is expected by the gnu integration tests for cp, the main areas that were missing were related to skipping copying the selinux xattr's.

Theres a bit of overlap between this PR and this one: #10083 since they both cover how to skip those types of ENOSUP errors.

The only other change is that I added is that one of the utilities was needed to run this test on the SELINUX build.

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[sylvestre]

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[codspeed-hq]

Merging this PR will degrade performance by 5.49%

❌ 4 regressed benchmarks
✅ 137 untouched benchmarks
⏩ 38 skipped benchmarks¹

⚠️ Please fix the performance issues or acknowledge them on CodSpeed.

Performance Changes

	Benchmark	BASE	HEAD	Efficiency
❌	split_bytes	515.3 µs	545.2 µs	-5.49%
❌	split_number_chunks	289.6 µs	302.9 µs	-4.4%
❌	sort_ascii_utf8_locale	20.4 ms	21.4 ms	-4.88%
❌	sort_numeric_utf8_locale	22.4 ms	23.2 ms	-3.3%

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_{Comparing ChrisDryden:fix-cp-a-selinux-test (060903b) with main (0b0ba60)}

Footnotes

1. 38 benchmarks were skipped, so the baseline results were used instead. If they were deleted from the codebase, click here and archive them to remove them from the performance reports. ↩

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Skipping an intermittent issue tests/tty/tty-eof (passes in this run but fails in the 'main' branch)
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