fix: TS deploy error messaging for destructive operations (PRO-610)

[rmorehig]

Summary

• add --allow-destructive-operations to tinybird deploy and wire it through runDeploy -> deployToMain
• keep TS CLI behavior aligned with backend guidance by supporting destructive deploy opt-in
• append actionable guidance to Forward/Classic workspace deploy errors, pointing users to Tinybird Classic CLI (tb) in a Classic workspace
• add deploy tests for query param propagation and Forward/Classic guidance message

Validation

• pnpm -s vitest run src/api/deploy.test.ts src/cli/commands/deploy.test.ts
• pnpm -s typecheck

Linear

• https://linear.app/tinybird/issue/PRO-610/ts-cli-deploy-error-references-non-existent-allow-destructive