Revert torch-family pin centralization

[JacobSzwejbka]

Several macos jobs have been timing out really bad since this change blocking viablestrict. We could potentially just increase the runtime but until I actually get a viable strict bump I dont want to be sat waiting 1-2hrs for these jobs to run so reverting to get back to the 30-40m runtimes.

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