[compiler] Fix refs lint false positives for JSX ref props

[raashish1601]

Summary

The refs lint rule was aliasing non-current property loads back to their parent object. When a JSX ref attribute inferred props.ref, props.buttonRef, or groupRefs.group1 as a ref, the parent object was then treated as a ref too, which made sibling props or sibling ref entries look like ref.current accesses during render.

This keeps property-load values separate in the ref validation environment so JSX ref forwarding remains valid while direct props.ref.current reads still report.

Fixes #35575
Fixes #34775
Fixes #35813
Fixes #35997

How did you test this change?

• corepack yarn --cwd packages/eslint-plugin-react-hooks build:compiler
• corepack yarn --cwd packages/eslint-plugin-react-hooks jest ReactCompilerRuleTypescript-test --runInBand
• corepack yarn --cwd packages/eslint-plugin-react-hooks typecheck
• git diff --check