Recognize use$ and use_ as hook names

[raashish1601]

Summary

• recognize use$ and use_ as hook names in compiler hook classification
• keep existing behavior for names like use_hook that are intentionally not hook names
• align the public rules-of-hooks heuristic and add compiler/ESLint regression coverage

Issue

Fixes #32473.

Validation

• corepack yarn workspace snap run snap --pattern error.invalid-conditional-call-hook-symbol-names --sync
• corepack yarn workspace eslint-plugin-react-hooks test ESLintRulesOfHooks-test.js --runInBand
• corepack yarn workspace babel-plugin-react-compiler run lint -- --quiet
• corepack yarn workspace eslint-plugin-react-hooks typecheck
• corepack yarn prettier
• corepack yarn prettier --write packages/eslint-plugin-react-hooks/src/rules/RulesOfHooks.ts packages/eslint-plugin-react-hooks/__tests__/ESLintRulesOfHooks-test.js
• git diff --cached --check