Fix ref callback explanation in deps exercise

[kentcdodds]

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Documentation-only change with no runtime or behavior impact.

Overview
Updates the Dependencies exercise README to correct and clarify the explanation for why the vanilla-tilt effect resets on re-render.

The docs now attribute the behavior to using an inline callback ref (new function each render), and aligns the subsequent useEffect dependency discussion/examples with that model.

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