[branch-4.0][chore](cloud) Enable txn lazy commit by default (pick #58732 #61506)#61507

yiguolei merged 1 commit intoapache:branch-4.0apache/doris:branch-4.0from

gavinchou:gavin-enable-lazy-commit-4.0gavinchou/doris:gavin-enable-lazy-commit-4.0Copy head branch name to clipboard