fix: all event target for shadow dom

[snowystinger]

Another bulk fix for shadow dom, this lints for event.target and auto fixes to getEventTarget(event) which just defers to event.target under the hood.

Some events are not affected when I could detect that the event was one of our Press events or Drag/Drop events since those don't match native events and don't have the same kinds of properties. Those may eventually need different updates.

Some of these updates were done here:
#8991

This PR should make reviewing other ShadowDOM PRs easier and prevent us from regressing

Follow up to #9485
Replaces #9486

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## API Changes

@react-aria/utils

/@react-aria/utils:getEventTarget

-getEventTarget <T extends Event> {
+getEventTarget <T extends Event | SyntheticEvent> {
   event: T
   returnVal: undefined
 }

/@react-aria/utils:nodeContains

 nodeContains {
-  node: Node | null | undefined
-  otherNode: Node | null | undefined
+  node: Node | Element | null | undefined
+  otherNode: Node | Element | null | undefined
   returnVal: undefined
 }

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