refactor: replace lowlevel Server decorators with on_* constructor kwargs #576

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checks / readme-snippets	10s
checks / pre-commit	31s
checks / test (3.10, lowest-direct, windows-latest)	6m 28s
checks / test (3.10, locked, windows-latest)	5m 46s
checks / test (3.11, locked, ubuntu-latest)	4m 50s
checks / test (3.10, lowest-direct, ubuntu-latest)	4m 51s
checks / test (3.11, lowest-direct, ubuntu-latest)	4m 53s
checks / test (3.10, locked, ubuntu-latest)	4m 52s
checks / test (3.12, lowest-direct, ubuntu-latest)	5m 0s
checks / test (3.12, locked, windows-latest)	6m 3s
checks / test (3.11, lowest-direct, windows-latest)	6m 33s
checks / test (3.12, lowest-direct, windows-latest)	6m 5s
checks / test (3.13, lowest-direct, windows-latest)	5m 39s
checks / test (3.13, locked, ubuntu-latest)	4m 56s
checks / test (3.14, lowest-direct, windows-latest)	7m 3s
checks / test (3.12, locked, ubuntu-latest)	5m 1s
checks / test (3.14, lowest-direct, ubuntu-latest)	5m 6s
checks / test (3.14, locked, ubuntu-latest)	6m 13s
checks / test (3.11, locked, windows-latest)	6m 29s
checks / test (3.13, locked, windows-latest)	5m 46s
checks / test (3.14, locked, windows-latest)	6m 48s
checks / test (3.13, lowest-direct, ubuntu-latest)	4m 55s
all-green	5s
	1h 54m 3s

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