added CLI option `--debug-ipc` to log `ProcessExecutor` IPC communication #19685

Job	Run time
build_make (ubuntu:24.04)	4m 6s
build_cmake (ubuntu:24.04, true, true)	4m 50s
build_cmake (alpine:3.23, false, false)	3m 58s
build_make (alpine:3.23)	5m 44s
build_cmake (ubuntu:25.10, true, true)	5m 5s
build_make (ubuntu:25.10)	5m 2s
	28m 45s

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