disable `aiodns`, fix futex deadlocks #2038

Job	Run time
build-spidermonkey-unix (ubuntu-22.04, 3.10)	16s
build-spidermonkey-win	12m 7s
sdist	41s
build-spidermonkey-unix (macos-14, 3.10)	19s
build-spidermonkey-unix (ubuntu-22.04-arm, 3.10)	16s
build-spidermonkey-unix (macos-15-intel, 3.10)	33s
build-and-test	1s
publish-archive	1s
publish-nightly	1s
publish	1s
	14m 16s

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