disable `aiodns`, fix futex deadlocks #2037

Job	Run time
sdist	44s
build-spidermonkey-unix (macos-15-intel, 3.10)	36m 35s
build-spidermonkey-win	13m 32s
build-spidermonkey-unix (macos-14, 3.10)	13s
build-spidermonkey-unix (ubuntu-22.04, 3.10)	18s
build-spidermonkey-unix (ubuntu-22.04-arm, 3.10)	16s
build-and-test	0s
publish	0s
publish-nightly	0s
publish-archive	0s
	51m 38s

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